Tuesday, April 11, 2006

MEN, MEN GOOD FOR ONLY 1 THING (AT LEAST THE ONES THAT I KNOW)





I can’t believe that I am still this pissed off…actually I can believe it. My asshole bed-buddy was so fucked up last night I that if it hadn’t been for the fact that my daughter was home I would have marched to his sister’s house slapped the shit out of him.

And the fact that he hasn’t even called or even text me to say sorry is pissing my off even more.

He is one of the most sensitive men that I have ever known. Over the weekend we got into an argument because when he came over on Saturday night (which by the way I called him to come over) I didn’t wait by the door for him and my greeting wasn’t as warm as he wanted it to be. I told him I was asleep when came in not to mention NAKED so I wasn’t going to stand at the door. It’s not like my apartment is a mansion and he couldn’t find me. And as he put it one day “I’m not his girlfriend” so what’s with the gushing at the door. I was tired I had been up that day since 9am so that was argument that in the ended he said that he wanted me to help him with a list of all the things that are wrong with him so I did it and then I did a list of all his good qualities.

Sunday we went to Toys R Us and he bought some stuff for my daughter (which I told him not to but he said he really wanted to do it). We had a nice afternoon. I then ask him if he’s working Monday
He says, “I’m afraid to answer that.”
I ask “why?”
He says, “Because then I’m obligated to drive you to work.”
I say, “YOU’RE NOT OBLIGATED TO DO ANYTHING!!!”

Yesterday he texts me and asks if I’m getting out at 1:30 I reply yes; which means that he wants to come pick me up. Two seconds later my sister calls and says that she’s in the area and she coming to get me so I text my bed-buddy back not even 5 minutes later. “You don’t have to come my sister is coming.”

I leave with my sister I pick up my daughter from school & go to my sister’s house for a little while still not hearing from him after I told him that my sister is coming. I must have called his stupid phone at least 10x’s and sent like 20 text messages I thought that maybe he didn’t get my message and was waiting at my job (which would have been fucked up) I get a message and hour later “GREAT” now anyone who texts knows that all caps means yelling or being pissed.

4 hours later I finally I get him on the phone he was a sleep the whole time. So I tell him you “What you can’t pick up the phone once and let me know that you got the message?”

He goes into how he was asleep and then he had other calls to return “More Important ones” (Very nice right)

I hang up we then begin arguing via text message and then he says to me (which is way I am so pissed off and I am quoting this from my cell phone)

“You never say morning, you probably did it so we would talk and I would pick you up and you probably took the ride with her also cause she had weed who knows with you.”


THAT IS SUCH BULLSHIT!!!!! I STOPPED TEXTING HIM THE MORNING CAUSE IAM ALWAYS THE ONE HOW STARTS IT AND I WANT TO SEE HOW LONG IT WOULD TAKE HIM TO SAY GOOD MORNING TO ME FIRST.

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY WHAT THE FUCK DOES HE THINK I AM SOME KIND OF DRUG ADDICT!!!!!

He wants to know why the sex between us has been so far apart; he thinks it’s cause I think he’s ugly…well if he was he wouldn’t have been in my bed in the first place but I have stopped having sex with him because…
HE’S A DISRESPECTIFUL, RUDE, CRUEL & UNGRATEFUL PIECE OF SHIT!!!!!!

10 comments:

Mia said...

Kick him in the nuts. Men can be so stupid at times. You're damned if you do and damned if you dont as far as they're concerned. Why is he bitching so much if as he says you're not his girfriend. Sounds to me like he wants all the extras of a girl but only when it's convinient to him.

dee said...

I have been reading your blog on the low for a few months. I couldn't help but react to this blog because it serves as a great example of the insecurity that exists in relationships without foundation ("bed-buddy", "booty call", etc.). He tells you where he stands. That is what he means. He acts another way. Don't sweat it. Don't get gassed either. It's the male persuasion's infamous, most played out game. They all want their cake and eat it too. In most cases like yours he wants the cherry on top too. Keep it moving. I am a single mom too from the Bx. I just released my first book Boogiericanism. Google it. Keep writing. I like your style. Your words draw readers. God bless you and your daughter.

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